I've mentioned in a lot of my posts that you need to develop your mental and emotional strength in order to get women. You always have the skeptics of "just be good-looking and that's it". Let me paint you a picture.

Let's say someone is selling their Lambo. You happen to have the money to buy it. You get there and it has a beautiful paint job. The owner took great care of it. The wheels are brand new. It's fresh and clean and the interior feels amazing. You ask the owner if you could take it for a test drive. The owner says no. You asked why. The owner doesn't give you a definitive answer. You want to test drive it so you can see how well it runs and you can buy this thing. As you look at the owner, it looks like he's hiding something. He's a little insecure. You tell him to pop open the hood. After a lot of going back and forth, you get him to open the hood. THERE IS NO ENGINE! This person was selling a car with no engine. If you wouldn't have qualified this car, you would have a beautiful car with no way of driving it. It would look pretty, but be completely useless. All it would be is decoration on your driveway, but serve you no purpose.

That's the mentality you have to have when it comes to dating. There are a lot of beautiful, but useless women out there. Just because she's hot doesn't mean you will be able to enjoy her company, doesn't mean she will be cooperative, and doesn't mean she'll serve you any purpose. All she is is arm candy.

A mentally and emotionally tough man doesn't allow a woman's beauty to be the only qualifier. If a woman is hot, he has to make sure she and him will be a good match. If she's flaky, she's not a good match. If she's disrespectful, she' not a good match. If she has other habits and tendencies you don't like, she's not a good match. Don't let her rejection hurt your feelings. If you have your shit together, you will start to be a little more careful with who you get with no matter how hot she is.

Women and cars have a lot of similarities. This is why men give their cars female names. A true car person isn't easily impressed by the look of the car. They know that the engine and how well the car handles is most important. They know that certain makes and models of cars are not as good as other cars. Some car people will take a crappy car and restore it to brand new. With women, a man who is use to getting women is not easily impressed by her beauty. He needs to see where her mind and intentions are at. He needs to know that if he gets with this woman will she be worth his time and effort. If she's not hot, does she have potential once she gets a make over and get her body right by either gaining weight or losing weight and working out?

The men who say "you just have to be good-looking" will get fucked over royally because the first hot woman they get they will try to marry or have a baby with all without seeing if this woman is worthy of their commitment or being the mother of their child. A lot of hot women are either single or divorced because these men did not qualify them properly and found out later on that these women were just a "beautiful car with no engine".