The importance of self confidence and how to gain it

WetAssPuthyy · 2021-01-03T12:33:20+00:00

Confidence makes you attractive! Ugh it’s so hot when somebody is good in there skin. Also... being confident and doing other things in this mans story won’t attract every girl (including the one you’re thinking about maybe who knows) but it will put you ahead because being confident is the reward in itself TRUST ME. When I got confident it’s like everything that I wanted to matter doesn’t. Idgaf about how people feel about me and I don’t care if I get laid, but I you know what I care about the most.? My flipping future. I care about my mom. I care about my boys (homeboys). MAN I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT MY LOVED ONES!!! I have so much to care about personally that it makes it so hard to care about random strangers because that’s to damn much.

Also just a heads up that the opposite sex can be insecure to no matter how they look :)

scrotalimplosion · 2021-01-04T04:48:18+00:00

The way to have confidence to know what you care about and not care about what people think.

antonthecad · 2021-01-03T11:28:37+00:00

I think that this is good in the short term but in the long term you can't be depending on external factors to have self confidence. It needs to be self fulfilling. All the best players I know have one thing in common, complete irrational self confidence.

2021-01-04T05:19:43+00:00

Agreed. Confidence will simply come much easier if you put a little effort into positive habits every single day.

Also; have a FORWARD THINKING mindset. Always be thinking about what you need to do for your future, have a vision for your ultimate goals and write them down, and remember Rome wasn’t built in a day so it’s gonna take some time. Don’t get discouraged and keep grinding.

caesarfecit · 2021-01-04T16:43:14+00:00

You get confidence through competence and the barrier to attaining competence is fear.

In order to gain competence at something, you have to push past the fear of getting out of your comfort zone and be willing to fail in the name of getting better.

One of the best things to do is to face your fears in other areas of your life outside of women. Do this successfully and you'll find you're much more present and DGAF with women.

Women like men with confidence because when they're around guys they find attractive, they get fearful and all caught up in their head (aka not confident). They need and want a guy who will keep their cool when they're slowly losing theirs and lead things to the outcome they want but lack the presence of mind and DGAF mentality to get there.

ISellFog · 2021-01-04T11:28:33+00:00

I feel what you are saying but what i also get from your words is "IM CONFIDANT, VALIDATE ME!!"

Title	The importance of self confidence and how to gain it
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Date	January 3, 2021 5:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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