Broke up with ltr 1 year ago, did some hardcore monking in the meantime. Get my first date since then.

Girl I'd met once comes with some friends to a bbq at my house. Pretty sure she came because she was interested. We get along, but my game is non existent. Awkwardly initiate some kino before shes about to leave, but she likes it and reciprocates. I get her # before she leaves.

Text her a couple days later if she wants to watch a couple episodes of GoT season 5 because she hadn't seen it yet. Says shes busy but would love for me to take her out. Agree to Jurassic World 3d that weekend.

Date goes well, back at my place I deflect her ASD and get an amazing bj, which for me is a fine first date victory.

Ask her out again later in the week. Get blown off. Ignore her for awhile, and decide to give it another shot. She says I can come over, so I do, we had a nice time but there was people around and nothing happened. We make a date to watch GoT and cook her dinner the next night.

Two hours before shes supposed to show up, she texts that she heard something that made her feel I was untrustworthy and she didn't wanna see me anymore, but didn't give any details and I honestly have no idea what she was talking about.

Pretty sure it was just a kind of cruel shit test. I totally lost frame and reacted in a feeble beta way that makes me cringe to think about now. Something like I don't get it, we were getting along, I know we just met but you hurt me. Ugh. I should have just been like whatever, bitch, bye.

The next day she texts back that she made a mistake and she was sorry and wanted to see me again. I had my frame back, and I told her look I'm not gonna sit here and text you about this shit, if you wanna talk you know where I am. She said she was at work, and I went radio silent. Haven't heard from her since, but that was three days ago, and it was a holiday weekend so I havent completely given up.

I feel like I would be willing to let it go, but she needs to do the work, come to me and explain WTF. I'm not chasing her.

I know I didn't handle it like a pro, but I'm here to learn. Any feedback or advice?