Trying to "understand" women is a waste of time

recyclablebanthas · 2021-01-05T15:08:37+00:00

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The sooner you realize this, the better your life will be. I am a firm believer that as soon as you realize you are not getting what you want or you start to get mixed signals, put her on ignore and move on.

The basic idea here is valid. If someone's not interested, then one should move on. A lot of people do post asking what to do when someone is mixed.

When the answer is that it shouldn't require bending over backwards. Seduction is a two way street. A team sport. The other person will put in half of the work if they're interested.

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I don't care how experienced you are in pick-up or seduction but dealing with women will always result in a lot of time wasted, a lot of money wasted and a lot of energy wasted....

Your mileage may vary according to the kind of people you're involved with and those you attract into your life with your style of game.

Not everyone is a waste of time. Only the ones that one shouldn't bother gaming in th first place.

But then, if one realizes that they are dealing with such a person, then it shouldn't really be going past the first interaction, which means you shouldn't be wasting your time if you know what you're doing.

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The title is a different message than the one you discuss in your post. Understanding people does have value.

One of the foundational skills of game is calibration, the ability to make adjustments to what you're doing based on the changing situation.

This involves understanding people, is that informs what adjustments you make.

Like understanding if someone is not worth your energy.

2021-01-05T12:17:55+00:00

This goes for people in general. Not just women lol. And some of your language sounds kind of bitter and mean. If you chill out on saying things like "mediocre vagina" "spineless simp" "all women" that may help. Just a suggestion.

liquidjerm · 2021-01-05T11:11:55+00:00

I generally agree with you; however, there is nothing wrong in growing your understanding of female nature / behavioural routines. You never know you could learn some pitfalls / unexpected turnarounds that you can use with more interesting prospects in the future.

This being said, if anyone is going foetal, whining over a rejection / break-up, they are clearly wasting their own precious time, which could be dedicated to self-improvement and scoring the next one...

AnisahC · 2021-01-05T14:12:14+00:00

Jeez who tf hurt you. Based on your replies to other comments, you lack basic social skills and are completely wrapped around the idea that “all women are trash because one woman rejected me”. Get some help.

Nervous-Clu3lessness · 2021-01-05T12:36:21+00:00

"People" are hard to understand, not just us chicks. 🤷 Why does anyone do what they do, and do they even have a clue why, is a more accurate question? Most people, male and female alike, will, in their lifetime say, " and I still don't know why I did it that way". Why is anybody worth it? It boils down to is, the person that you see in the mirror... What you want, and what, and who you love.... We don't choose who we love ultimately. There are parameters, just like a computer, but your heart picks your favorite trainwreck human, and sticks with them. Sometimes to our dismay. If you pick wrong, or are dissatisfied, well? Where exactly does the blame for your personal choices sit...

codewizbambam · 2021-01-05T12:13:04+00:00

I honestly think you are most likely following the wrong base approach in dealing with women and as a result you are getting all those hardly explainable and hard to deal with reactions when you get "dismantled" for your wrong base approach. If not, you might just be lacking the character to deal with women straight and understand them, which would be worse than wrong base assumptions.

2021-01-05T12:34:44+00:00

You are a man. You stand in the tradition of Hercules and Caeser. Say this to yourself and confidence will come

Title	Trying to "understand" women is a waste of time
Author	PeeWeeHermanJr
Upvotes	11
Comments	25
Date	January 5, 2021 10:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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