I have been reading a lot over the last year or so on TRP and other materials. This has been the first time I have really put something to use.

So I was out of town for a day or so and on my car ride back I had decided that it was time to end my 8 year long relationship. When I got back I did not say anything to her (needed to set up living situation and whatnot). The next day I said very little went to work, came home to change went to the gym then dinner by my self after. Then I went back home and didn't say a word just got dressed and went out to my favorite bar. The whole time I was gone she text me and tried to call me I ignored it all. When I got back that night she pulled me outside and did some bla bla about how I shouldn't go some ware without letting her know. Saying goodbye and I love has always been very important to her. She thought I wouldn't come home and was freaking out. I was very I don't give a fuck about the whole conversation.

After that we proceeded to have sex 2 times both more passionate and filled with more desire then has happened in 6 months. This is the side of her that I have loved for so many years. The next morning we had sex again. Then she gave me a blow job and swallowed (something she has not done in 2 years) and ended with doing anal (again happened only a few times in 5 years). If she can keep even 50% of the desire that has happened in the last few days then it will be a relationship that I will want to continue. My fear is that the relationship will "settle" back in to crappy sex, no respect for me, always mad.

My question for TRP is. How do I keep our relationship from drifting back?