I'll try to make this quick. I'm talking to a married girl, who doesn't even live with her husband anymore, she told me. I'm 24 she's 25. All morality aside I want to sleep with her (since the whole if it isn't you it'll be someone else).

Basically we used to work together. Flirted but nothing happened since she was "happily married", she always flirted back. I haven't talked to her in over a year when i cut contact (she tried to make me an orbiter and i basically told her i have enough friends, I don't need girl-friends) and saw her recently and we got talking. She saw me in my new car and obviously not working at the old shitty job shes still at and doing something with myself.

Some logistics:

-i asked her to hang on Sunday, on Saturday to go hiking and lightly flirted about seeing her ass in yoga pants and she just smiled and laughed and called me sneaky.

-she said she worked. And I said ok.

-stopped talking until she texted Monday saying sorry about Sunday and asked when my next day off is.

-i didnt text until today saying I'm off friday and let's grab lunch on friday. And she said for sure. Every text had smilies in our conversation if that matters.

My question is, since I never tried to get with a married woman, is asking for lunch too slow and PG to where she'll tag me as a BB? Is it ok as long as i show a lot of kino? Should I cancel and try to go for a time when it's late and I can ask her over to watch Netflix or some shit? I'm very busy and she has to work at 5 that day so getting a compatible schedule is a little difficult. I think my biggest obstacle is obviously the ASD since she is married. Any advice?

TL:DR: trying to get with married woman who flirts with me. Any advice?