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https://youtu.be/SXtFFoomTGM <------ peep the actual vid if u want

Escalation in… “romance” (lol) is taking the sexuality/closeness/connection status to higher degrees.

What do I mean by that?

Simple. If you at some point want sex or a relationship with a woman you’ve never met before, you (yes, YOU) have to take things from a status of never having kissed or touched or whatever, to a status where you, now, have.

These 2 different moments in the “relationship” carry different degrees of closeness/investment. The significance of this is something you need to understand well.

This is either super easy to do or not easy at all:

The masculine takes the initiative to escalate, makes the move and is either successful or unsuccessful.

If he is successful, it’s because preceding the escalation, there has been an increase of the female’s buying temperature.

That means that the “vibe” or “energy” has increased and made it easier for the girl to overcome and not succumb to her inner resistance or rationalization of why she wouldn’t let the escalation happen, but rather, she was comfortable with the way things went.

When you want to “escalate” (which is your responsibility), make sure that first you raise the vibe.

We do this by:

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  1. Smiling
  2. Increasing the volume of our voice.

These 2 things, you will find, happen automatically when you talk about something you’re passionate about.

Also, do NOT escalate right after having increased the vibe/buying temp. You MUST let the moment sit, enjoy it and welcome the girl to enjoy it as well. Only in the next “beat” do you escalate.

“Beat” refers to the timing/rhythm of the interaction but that’s another topic.

Check the vid (link on top) for a couple more in-depth tips.

Also, everyone clear on what “escalation” actually is?

Hope this helps!