How to collect women AKA how to start a polyamorous harem?

RemyPrice · 2015-07-09T15:20:57+00:00

I have a harem of hot girls.

There is no secret that I am fucking multiple women. And, sometimes my plates play together with me.

The only way to do this is to be okay with them also fucking other guys.

B00TYMASTER · 2015-07-09T13:13:20+00:00

Never tell any of them or promise any of them monogamy. Just don't mention it and be gradual and covert in expressing your need to break away from the monogamous ideal implemented by the feminine imperative.

If you have a high SMV then they won't mind. They feed off of the competition anxiety and will each work harder to seperate themselves from the pack so in the end you'll have a bunch of self improving women vying for your attention. Don't give them too much attention.

If you have a low SMV and are new to TRP then work on bettering yourself first and building your value before attempting to spin many plates.

Your desire shouldn't be a bunch of relationships, it should just be spinning plates. No woman is worth being in a LTR with at a young age, or dropping plates for, or waiting to fuck, or committing to so if she refuses drop her and keep collecting and dumping plates until you are happy with where you're at. And then once your content, keep improving because being content is never enough.

Things to research - Plate Spinning - Hypergamy - Competition Anxiety - Monk Moding (if currently low SMV) - AWALT - Desire

Emphasis on the first two but always keep in mind that AWALT and if she really values and desires you she will share you and won't make you wait for sex. Never wait for sex.

Hope this helps. I'm pretty new to TRP but this is what I've learned from my research and reading TRM which I very much advise reading if you haven't done so already.

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-07-09T14:19:32+00:00

I doubt you will ever get this fantasy.

Pushnikov · 2015-07-09T14:36:49+00:00

It depends more on the woman than anything you can do. Jealousy is hardwired, in the deepest parts of the mind. Frankly, most people are not adept at trying to control their instincts, and in this case, you're asking them to control their instincts against their perceived benefit.

There are people that simply don't care out there. One of my plates frankly doesn't care. But, even then, I asked her about doing a three way and she said yes at first, but then said something different a couple days later, "I can't see my man with another woman." So, it's not that she cares what I do, but doesn't want to be there for it. This is pretty typical in my experience. "Do what you want, don't let me know about it."

You'll hear it from married woman and any other woman. Out of sight out of mind. If you want a commune where it's 3 woman and one dude in a place, short of finding many similar minded woman, there is probably a lot to be said to having the economic wealth to convince them that the situation is in their benefit. I.e. Imagine finding a bunch of college aged chicks that want to finish school, get a sugar daddy, and willing to live in your space all together for the perks.

Now, you might say that breaks some basic tents of Red Pill from the perspective of commitment/economic investment. But, remember... you want THREE RELATIONSHIPS. Not three plates, so you're talking about taking on three times the economic incentive/commitment, and they will want it back in some fashion, especially since the jig is up. Now, that doesn't mean you need to give them any kind of long term incentives, but keep in mind that relationships become about sex in exchange for commitment. The plate spinning is basically a short circuit that tries to get around that where you get sex for no commitment using psychological cues that woman look for in Alpha male behavior, where they are willing to sacrifice their sex for better "genes/short term benefits/insert your own theory".

Feel free to dig into that as you wish. Just a basic premise to start the conversation.

[deleted] · 2015-07-09T16:33:36+00:00

Okcupid is a good place to look. The dating community there is familiar with poly people.

Be upfront about polyamory. You sound like you're looking for a relationship, which girls are onboard with, and as long as you're alpha enough, they'll accept it.

Poly makes preselection and dread game easy. If you're poly and in even one relationship, girls assume you can have more.

Never have a primary partner.

Never let any partner know that they're the only one you're seeing (if it happens). The moment you don't have another partner, your current one will either try to lock you down, or lose attraction.

RPmatrix · 2015-07-09T17:16:18+00:00

lol "problem"? I can't see a problem?

I can only see stupid questions

fortunately the TRP side bar and all it's wisdom is that >>>>> way mate, make the most of it

Title	How to collect women AKA how to start a polyamorous harem?
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