After almost five years of reading and learning about game and seduction, I want to share with you some things I have found to be useful. The purpose of this post is to add somewhat different information to this thread which might help some of you guys out there.

I’m sorry If there are any grammatical mistakes English isn’t my first language.

Not every woman is looking for the same things, but there are certain traits which can be applied almost universally and raise a man’s value in a females’ eyes. It is not uncommon to hear that women want comfort and security, (which is not untrue but cannot be applied universally). After years of research and experience I can say woman greatly value REAL confidence. It is important to make a distinction between being confident and acting confident as women have an almost supernatural ability of detecting one from another. The easiest and simplest way of achieving real confidence is by working on yourself. I know this sounds cliché, but the truth of the matter is that this is one of the most important traits which help a man seduce a woman. To achieve real confidence, one must let go of fear of rejection, act unapologetically without fearing confrontation and put in the effort of improving individually every day by being disciplined. Women instantly notice men with potential and self-confidence and flock to them. They want to be a part of your life project, tell them about your passions, let them see how you take care of yourself and those around you, think before you speak, take your time, be patient and speak slowly, women will perceive you as being truly confident and start feeling attracted to you.

If a woman is very confident and sure of herself you are going to have to step up your game. Rejection might even be unavoidable, but it is important that you try. Analyze how she looks at people and how she speaks. Try making her nervous, subtly try to hurt her ego, be ambiguous, see how she reacts. If she notices she has you under her spell, it’s over my friend: always make her uncertain of how you feel towards her. For example, friendzone her before she friend zones you, but look at her and act towards her with sexual energy. These kinds of contradictions baffle women, making them revalue themselves when comparing to you. Over time, once you learn to act like this you will often hear the same exact words coming out of a woman’s mouth: “I don’t get you” or “I don’t understand you.” Women are captivated by men who puzzle them. 90% of the time, if you get this from a woman you are good to start sexually escalating your relationship.

Sexual value can be achieved in numerous ways, and is key in making sexual escalation easy. Women value a man who can give off a sexual vibe. Years ago, I read about a study on porn, many things can be deduced by examining what each sex consumes. Interestingly, women consume far less visual porn than men but more readable porn. This is called literotica, and by analyzing which are the most read stories which women get off to we can find out what really turns them on. There are five female fantasies which are more prolific than any other: the adventurer, the vampire, the werewolf, the billionaire and the doctor. A group of psychologists analyzed these fantasies and what they meant and they concluded the following from what I remember. (I will try to find the study and share it as soon as possible). They sexually value adventurous men who like exploring and travelling, they are not afraid to experiment and this can be translated into the bedroom. Secondly, vampires and werewolf are dangerous and unpredictable, as I mentioned before, women love uncertainty and unpredictability and the possibility of ending hurt makes them uncertain and fearful of your every move and sexually arouses them. Thirdly, the billionaire fantasy is pretty straightforward: some women love successful men. Many times, we see a wealthy below average looking male with a beautiful model and we think to ourselves, “that woman is such a gold-digger.” Let me tell you now in most cases this isn’t true, success gives status, and status higher a man’s sexual value. Lastly, the doctor fantasy can be understood as women’s sexual arousal to intelligence. It is important to note that not every woman is attracted to all of these traits, but many are. Try incorporating these traits into your personality, be unpredictable and unapologetic, tell them how much you love traveling and experiencing different things, always act focused on your work by being unavailable every now and then and never act stupid around them.

After you have incorporated these traits into your persona, you will one day notice you have plenty of options. And from there on, the rest is a piece of cake. Women will notice your abundance mindset making them invest in you. From this point on, all you have to do is decide which woman you want and slowly reveal your intentions with actions but maintaining the same frame with which you have seduced her. For example, confidently invite her over to your place to cook something, make her bring some wine. Or take her ice skating, go swimming together. Try having dates in which contact between the two is possible and execute with the same confidence that you’ve shown and believe you have.

I strongly believe in all these things, and since I’ve learnt them they have drastically changed my life. I want to add, that this is by no means relationship advice, it is only and strictly linked to the process of seduction. I really hope this information helps some of you get the girl you want :)