Guys- if we’re at a party, how do I tell him I’m DTF?

drinkmasagua · 2021-03-10T03:46:15+00:00

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YesImTheAsshole_ta · 2021-03-10T04:17:46+00:00

Is he shy? Do you think he likes you?

In general if he likes you and knows what he’s doing with women, just escalate things further every time he makes a move and you’re golden. He touched your knee, you hold his hand. He kisses you, you kiss back passionately and give those big excited fuck me eyes. He holds your hand again, you move it inside your thigh.

If you’re trying to get in the pants of an inexperienced dude that is shy, you don’t want to move too fast because he’s already in his head way too much and you’re going to short circuit his overthinking brain lol. In that instance you just got to build up his confidence, and respond positively to anything he says or does that moves things in the direction you want them to go.

revente · 2021-03-10T04:39:32+00:00

Don’t tell. Show.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/

Just do the female version of this. Strp by step. He should pick on whats up.

tommyv2001 · 2021-03-10T07:21:49+00:00

have a few drinks with him then tell him you want to show him/tell him something (assuming the sexual chemistry is mutual), find an empty bedroom, tell him he should probably lock the door, and boom! #daykill

aridiz · 2021-03-10T07:40:31+00:00

Text him before... "You still going to this thing tonight? Grab me for a drink when you see me."

drewt6768 · 2021-03-10T04:21:07+00:00

Take him somewhere privet, tell him to close his eyes

And then kiss him lightly, smile and hopefully he can take the lead from there

bryantwithatee · 2021-03-10T05:54:01+00:00

Don’t be afraid to be a little bold. Start off by seeing if you can just casually start a conversation with him alone. Find ways to touch him in a non sexual way to start with. You gotta read his response and adjust accordingly. If he’s responding well don’t be scared to go nuclear since you’re DTF anyway. I know it may not be your style but guys are really good at missing subtle signals. To guarantee success it helps to make it obvious. If you grab his inner thigh or anything along those lines he’ll absolutely get the message. You’ll only come off as desperate if you push it when he’s obviously not feeling it. Most guys will find it pretty hot when a girl makes the first move.

alleecc6969 · 2021-03-10T06:21:16+00:00

Just whisper in his ear that you want to fuck and that should do it

recyclablebanthas · 2021-03-10T11:16:56+00:00

I (24F) want to hook up with this guy at an upcoming party but I’m not that great at flirting to get casual sex or showing obvious signals.

Sometimes when we get stuck in our heads and get overthinking about something, we can make it more complicated than it really is.

Honestly, if you create an opening for a dude, he's going to be thrilled, assuming he's interested.

You create an opening by inviting him to your place or suggesting doing something at his place. Really not that complicated.

We have some history with hanging on and off but we aren’t too close as friends so I don’t expect to naturally be around him/his friends that night.

But you're interested, right? So be around him.

How can I show him I’m DTF without coming across as desperate or needy?

Just go talk with him. Suggest doing something at your place or his if you want to be really direct.

Title	Guys- if we’re at a party, how do I tell him I’m DTF?
Author	drinkmasagua
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	March 10, 2021 3:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/m1oixx/guys_if_were_at_a_party_how_do_i_tell_him_im_dtf/
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