Is it weird for me to not want a LTR with a woman I’m not totally in love with?

MrNobody___ · 2021-03-16T17:24:52+00:00

That was the only time I got burned as well.

That's probably mean you got some trauma that need to be worked on.

Also, just listening about "Not Totally in Love With" I would tell it's kinda of a red flag and also would say you have probably a non realistic expectation about love.

fayg0666 · 2021-03-16T17:20:59+00:00

What do you mean “hanging out”? Sounds like you’re just hooking up with these women. Do they know that? Or do you lead them on and enable them to have the expectation that you want to give them a LTR relationship?

Captain_w00t · 2021-03-16T18:38:16+00:00

Maybe your gut is telling you they aren’t the right ones. Or maybe you’re afraid to commit for some reason (fear to get burned again?).

At your age, I usually broke relationships in max 90 days. The first 30 went good, at 60 they started declining, ended around 90.

Until I met one with which I settled for 18 years (+ kids).

I’m actually back at the initial pattern since 2 years, and I’m fine with it.

Outrageous-Hand-7252 · 2021-03-16T17:57:32+00:00

You are not obligated to anything! Women lead men on ALL The Time.. . It's up to you if you wanna take The high road and be honest(which you seems to be doing based on your desc.) with your intentions. If they accept your honesty you got your back free and its on them

Title	Is it weird for me to not want a LTR with a woman I’m not totally in love with?
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Date	March 16, 2021 5:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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