Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?

Drewsef916 · 2021-03-23T09:30:19+00:00

Please burn it into your brain that cold-Approaching will not teach you social skills. Only approaching skills. The best people at picking up women who are also genuinely happy with who they are and with there life.. have invested time into their life away from women. Focusing on themselves on a passion on attaining financial independence, and usually a satisfying social life. With these things you will usually start attracting women naturally but if your still not very versed in dating then its easy to work on it from that point.

MK2718 · 2021-03-23T10:23:36+00:00

Going out and cold approaching and thus practicing social skills can become your number 1 hobby but it should not be your life. You should be building a great life simultaneously to working on your social skills. Both aspects should reinforce each other synergistically.

RethinkYourReality · 2021-03-23T10:36:25+00:00

It all depends on your life situation (age, job, location, free time, social circle, interests, hobbies), personalty and goals. There is no universal best way, only the best for you. Any interaction with human beings can and will teach you social skills.

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