I have cold approached about 2k women in my lifetime. Any approach anxiety I had was ground to nothing. I just go and don't think about it.

Does that mean I have confidence? Maybe it's because I am an aspie, but I don't understand what confidence "is". I mean, I maintain strong eye contact and approach anywhere, but I also don't have high self esteem.

People keep saying I have "balls of steel" cause I never let fear make me not approach. I also have done public speaking on a few occasions and it didn't make me flinch. I think I just honestly don't give a fuck about what people think (no flex). I do wonder if that means I am confident, or if I come off as confident.