She was branch-swinging, and I broke up with her. Now, how do I overcome oneitis?

fnordsnord · 2015-07-17T02:35:41+00:00

To overcome oneitis, every time you think of her fondly, picture her with her lips wrapped around someone else's cock. That generally banishes the warm fuzzies.

[deleted] · 2015-07-17T01:52:35+00:00

Patrice O'Neil said the following about love, I thought it was applicable.

"Quit falling in love so much muthafuckas, there are a lot of bitches out there man. Ask yourself this, when she's gone...what are you really going to miss about her? What good has she really done and brought into your life? If you can't answer that right away, then it's absolutely nothing, except for pussy!"

You were fine before her, and you'll be fine after her.

[deleted] · 2015-07-17T05:42:57+00:00

now you're young but do you want to be with someone who can treat you so badly? i guess this is where self respect comes in but if i had spot on proof of something like this, not talking to the girl would be the easiest thing in the world. don't try to keep her she isn't yours to keep and don't project positive traits onto her because she clearly isn't a great person.

plus if you do have oneitis then you have a little part of you that wants to "get back at her" just know the ONLY way she'll ever hurt from this is if you never give her another drop of attention, not saying the reason is even better... if mutual friends ask just say you weren't feeling her, you want to see if there is anything better out there for you, whatever. she's going to hamster the shit out of how she's not pretty enough and blah blah blah. one guy not liking her is all it takes to completely fuck a hot girl up, so be that guy. (doesn't matter that she was already about to leave your ass, she's going to frame herself as the victim and since she thinks the world revolves around her she'll think she has some problem if you don't want to fuck her anymore)

ZeeyardSA · 2015-07-17T04:42:38+00:00

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[deleted] · 2015-07-17T07:34:28+00:00

Some great advice in this thread !!!

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-07-17T00:40:19+00:00

Be honest with her. Tell her how hurt you felt.

Then go out, get drunk and bang other bitches.

Title	She was branch-swinging, and I broke up with her. Now, how do I overcome oneitis?
Author	andnowthrowsaway
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	July 17, 2015 12:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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