One of the things that is being said in the wiki is the following:

"Boundaries: Knowing yourself, what you want, and what you don’t want. It’s drawing your own lines and only offering up what you're actually okay offering up. Knowing what you actually want is important because it’s not uncommon to find yourself going for someone just because you can, regardless of whether it’s what you really want."

How do you exactly know what do you want if you are just starting this game? You might have general idea, like wanting to get laid, or into relationship, or get experience. But there are much more nuances to it, and most of it is you never know until you try.

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I know that the short answer is that it will come with experience and you will gradually know exactly what you know. But I want a long answer, with articulation, examples and etc.

Appreciate all the answers