Im losing my hair and have been for over 10 years. I am in my mid 30s and you can see the top of my scalp from the rear. If my hair grows out 1/4 of an inch, it becomes very noticeable. I use a #1 clip on the sides and 1 1/2 on the top and cut my hair every two weeks. So one week goes by where the bald spot is very obvious. So that week I will get at least 4 people telling me to shave my head now so I can be completely bald. They say it looks bad on me... but all these people are MEN. I notice that this site places a lot of importance on looks and money to attract women, and it will work to get you noticed.. but not laid and definitely not keep her for the long run.

So thats where I wanted to share some wisdom with you red pillers. I've been a red piller for over 20 years, never married and been with more women than most men, where I cant remember them all. My stomping grounds are in Los Angeles and you can imagine the night life. Thats not to brag, but to show experience. With my bald spot, out of shape body, GED, and dressed in clothes from Ross, Im still pulling women 25-30 with no kids, women over 30 with money and careers, and even women who know each other. They range form 6-9s in looks and I dont go over 36. I dont spend money on them nor have a fancy car, nor bring them to my house. I usually get drunk around them and act like an asshole sometimes. I dont lie about my finances or lack of formal education and criminal record.

So that eliminates any thoughts of them moving in, using me for money, thinking about making me a stepdad to their kids, or marrying me for stability. All they get from me is a good honest time. That also filters out women who are not attracted to me the way I am or women who are thinking I can fill some void left behind from their failures in life.

So whats my secret to catching at least one new prospect every two weeks? Confidence.

The excercising, gaining wealth, exhuberant personal grooming and possesion of material items a man desires is simply because he lacks self confidence. He doesnt feel good about himself the way he is. So he assumes no woman would want him either unless he gained all these things. So he avoids women or tries to make up for his "failures" by being nice, a white knight, a provider and servant to a woman in hopes she sees value in him.. but it doesnt work. So this man will come here, read about women and how to attract them. Then he'll work out, shave his head, spend tons of cash on new gear and strive to make more money. Once he has it all, he'll come back to post here about some punk ass date with some broad and asking for advice on why he failed. Why she didnt give it up or "what does this mean if she did this" type of bullshit posts. This man still lacks self confidence. Thats why he still cannot attract women.

Most men gain pseudoconfidence from a fat wallet, six pack abs, Benz and good career. These men radiate a form of confidence and as a result, pick up on more women. The women are attracted to that mans self confidence even though its not genuine. Should he lose his money or looks, he'll revert to being beta.

Fellas, don't fake the funk. If you suck at life, at least have goals you are working on. Women love men who are continously improving or at least working on bettering their current situation. When a woman tells me I should work out, I just tell her that I already have all the muscle I need where it counts, and I grab my dick. Shuts them up or makes them laugh. Ive NEVER had a woman comment on my balding, just men. I noticed that its becomes a problem to her if its a problem to you.. because it signals lack of confidence. A good woman has at least 3 men to pick who are stable, educated, well off and fairly attractive. These men talk about what they have, what they can offer her and how important they are. Dont be the fourth. You can be the one who is happy the way he is, doesnt talk about material shit and doesnt give a fuck what anyone says. She'll be fucking you until she marries one of the others.

Oh, and you need to be humorous along with confident.