Hi everyone, I'm an Indian guy(28M) living in California, Bay Area. It's been 2 years since I moved from India to the USA to pursue my Masters. I have been an introvert all my life. Still, I have some friends back in India and made some friends here at college as well. But for the past 6 months, I have been reading a lot of stuff about socializing with people, becoming a more extroverted person, and how to approach women. My social anxiety has decreased a lot and I'm confident enough to go and speak to any stranger(as long as she is not a hot girl like 10/10). Also did cold approached a couple of girls at college and asked about their Instagram. I think I'm improving and am becoming more of an Extrovert and everyone now says that I'm an Extrovert (and that is something I'm proud of).
But, there is one doubt that lurks in my mind. As an Average looking Brown Indian guy, will I be rejected by American girls by default, even without bothering about my qualities or confidence or anything like that? Am I an undesirable guy in the American dating market? I go to the gym and have an average height(6 ft) and athletic body, but still, I feel like I'm being auto-rejected. Folks, I need your opinion on this
(P.S.:- Throw political correctness out of the window and answer honestly)
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