The worst a woman can do is reject you...

NoDecentNicksLeft · 2024-04-07T00:38:25+00:00

Yes, 'the worst a woman can do is reject you,' is a patently false claim to make. Unless it is uttered without thinking, it is also either malicious (deliberate lie) or infantile. The extent of harm done by a deliberately false or rash accusation cannot be ignored, and it's alarming that misandrists try to downplay it (either the impact or the probability).

I agree that women face a greater risk of violence, but one cannot ignore the risk of false accusations, and we aren't talking only about a completely sane person making a deliberate false accusation in full awareness and out of sheer malice. Those would probably be very rare cases. But we have to deal with paranoid feers, PTSD projections and jumped conclusions. Sometimes perhaps compulsive reponses, or whatever you call it when a person can't control themselves and impulsively responds with a retaliatory false accusation of sexual or physical violence when feeling angry or slighted, or those cases when one does it for the attention. The umbrella term would be psychological issues, which these days are abundant, even all over the place.

I'm a criminal lawyer myself, and I'm not sure I would be willing to walk the riverfront or a city park with a woman alone at night or something else like that. Of course, she wouldn't be able to prove completed rape without evidence of sexual intercourse — though I suspect there are feminist advocates who would be happy to insist that a woman's word should be enough and ban the examination of her body by a forensic physician — but there isn't much physical evidence you need in order to make a 'convincing' case of attempted assault. She screams 'rape!' or 'help!', some people come in running, she is seen tugging your clothes. Witnesses testifying they heard the scream and saw the struggle is all evidence the court would need.

And again, she doesn't even need to be malicious. It's enough if she's scared or has PTSD and infers the intention to assault her from some aspect of your body language or some misjudged movement.

And malicious false accusations — for the sheer fun of it or for some sort of sport or some form of revenge against the male sex (e.g. harming you because some other man harmed her before, and a man is a man) — will be more and more frequent the more and more impunity there is for them and also sympathy and even a sort of advocacy. I've seen the term 'false-accuser advocacy', and I'm not sure it's not actually warranted.

It would be one thing if the advocates asked for seriously disturbed people to be regarded as legally insane or got light sentencing, maybe even probation with mandatory therapy. I would generally agree with them on that. I would be in favour of leniency for false accusers who recant, especially where it's literally just the accuser's word that saves the defandant from being convicted just on the accuser's word. But what is troubling is the radical feminist demands that a woman should be believed whether or not there is proof, or even where the proof contradicts her words… and sometimes, it would seem, 'a victim should be believed' even if the proof demonstrates/facts demonstrate that she is not a victim and the act did not take place but e.g. it was a projection or invention. So essentially demand that woman women should be believed even when it can be demonstrated that they are lying — I shouldn't even need to say that that is unfair and outright absurd. It is very toxic to make such demands, and it is already toxic to even tolerate such demands being made in a civilized debate.

CyclopeWarrior · 2024-04-07T02:54:03+00:00

The worst a woman **could do **was reject you...

Long ago when your standing in your community and reputation mattered and you were innocent until proven guilty.

BloomingBrains · 2024-04-07T07:18:41+00:00

Its not the rejection itself but often the way its delivered. I doubt many people who make this statement have ever been treated like a night stalker for just speaking to a woman in a respectful manner. I doubt they know what is like to be afraid for their own safety because others will see them as a threat to be eliminated.

christina_murray_ · 2024-04-07T15:03:33+00:00

The worst a woman can do is the same as the worst a man can do. Why do we treat women with far more leniency?

Title	The worst a woman can do is reject you...
Author	vestibularam
Upvotes	79
Comments	4
Date	April 6, 2024 11:41 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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