MALE ABUSE IN MARRIAGE? WHY AN ABUSIVE WIFE IS NO LAUGHING MATTER

EnlightGrowExpand · 2024-04-08T02:56:57+00:00

I’ve had women do things to me that I would easily be spending decades behind bars for doing to a woman.

Not my wife, she’s the best, but there are a lot of psychotic women out there that have a ‘rules for me but not for thee’ approach to abuse.

Naughty-Spearfish · 2024-04-08T06:15:25+00:00

Men Fear Not Being Believed

Dismissal As many women in abusive relationships do, men may wonder who will believe them if they speak up. Societal images of abuse usually portray men as the aggressor. It’s difficult for many to see a man as a victim in his relationship. This is especially true if he’s physically bigger than his spouse. Golden, the professor who shares his emotional abuse story on the TEDx stage, shared in a separate interview that he recalls calling more than eight different sources for help and none of them had any resources for men. He said one therapist, while laughing, told him that men don’t get abused by women. This perspective is only amplified by the media. Men are fair game for slaps, punches, and crotch-kicks.

That is why.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-04-08T02:37:12+00:00

Anyone who thinks an abusive wife is a laughing matter is a lost cause.

Unable-Flight-9311 · 2024-04-08T04:34:45+00:00

And Male getting abused is not physical harm most of the times.

It is :

Making fun of how you look.
Comparing you to their friends, your friends, everyone on the face of earth.
Intentionally fighting with you on small things and making you habitual to avoiding any fight. So that when you really raise any serious concerns you don't have enough strength to fight.
Belittling you
Intentionally spending more time with other guys.
Gaslighting, blaming, or manipulating emotions to control or degrade.
Controlling social interactions, restricting contact with friends and family.
Threatening harm, leaving, or taking children away as a method of control.
Taking control of finances, restricting access to money, or using financial means to manipulate.
Damaging belongings as a means of control or intimidation.

Stacemranger · 2024-04-08T04:49:58+00:00

Women affected most I'm sure. ☕

Lianides · 2024-04-08T17:03:31+00:00

So story time.

My wife who has a history of abusive behaviour towards me got a bit angry at my on Saturday because I didn't want to have sex with her after she drank two bottles of wine that evening.

This kicked off an argument about how I clearly don't love her, how I don't know what I'm talking about, how I'm controlling (for apparently not wanting to have sex with her while she is drunk)

Then after a while she pushed and hit me a few times. When I told her that she is hurting me, she asked if AI was scared of her.

I honestly said yes, I'm was scared she would hurt me again.

The response. I am bigger than her therefore I can't be scared of her. I can defend myself so again can't be scared. When pointed out that if AI was to defend myself then I would likely end up in trouble she just laughed at me.

Eterna_Caelestia · 2024-04-08T13:43:14+00:00

well.... marriage is for rich & stupid men.

Title	MALE ABUSE IN MARRIAGE? WHY AN ABUSIVE WIFE IS NO LAUGHING MATTER
Author	warmy1818
Upvotes	183
Comments	21
Date	April 8, 2024 2:28 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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