I'm quite passive. I dont really care where we go eat, what we see etc. I just don't have the drive a lot of times to make that effort to be funny in conversation, I just don't engage. I have so much knowledge about expressing alpha qualities until I try to talk to women. Friends and family its easy to hold frame.

I'm completely confident and calm, but everything I need to use gotta out the window when I approach a new woman.

I need to get my head in the game.