Been on holiday for a few days with some recently gained confidence and a (slightly) nicer body.

So far I’ve been aiming for 5 approaches for day game (all by the beach) and 2 for night game. I currently have a ratio of 1/5, where I’d be able to make the conversation last longer and have it end with exchanging contacts. Haven’t been able to take it any further with any of them. I feel like my resilience for rejection has gone up, and I believe that the more I continue working on my body, lookmaxxing, and my conversation making in general, the higher that ratio will become. However I have a few questions:

  • How do you dissociate not getting laid from ruining your overall mood/impacting your entire holiday?

  • Would you limit your approaches to a certain number or duration? Like my goal is to approach 5 girls or 2 hours a day, whichever comes first?

  • As someone who’s not gotten there (yet), how do you deal with being constantly teased of what you can’t have (yet)? Pretty girls in bikinis (or topless) everywhere while you’re on your own and struggling to spike enough interest to make further plans with a girl etc?

  • Given I’ve still got a long way to go but with my body, would you recommend continuing to approach girls while topless on the beach to build resilience? Or should I stick to night game and only approach girls on the beach when I reach my body goals?

Side note: I’m travelling solo realistically not so out of choice, I don’t have many friends and I couldn’t get anyone to join me on this - so please keep your recommendations applicable to being on my own.

Thanks a lot for your responses in advance, I’m trying quite hard and this is all new to me so I know it’ll take me a while to get my head around it.