Italian male, 29 yrs. It's been 3 years since I had a significant relationship with an Italian girl/ woman. I thought that my last Italian girlfriend might have been my wife, but she left me in 2021. We had been staying together for 3 years. It's water under the bridge.

In 2022 I had a short relationship that lasted 5 days when I was on holiday with a Colombian girl. A stunning girl. I met her the first night in the holiday village. She was working there. We met the next 2 days and I was able to connect with her. The third night we kissed, we fucked hard and so the next days. From January 2023 to June 2023 I had a relationship with a girl from Peru. I liked her and she appreciated me very much. We used to have passionate sex. She had a son and she told me she didn't want other children. Moreover the father of her child was a quite violent man. I thought I could handle all of it, but I had to think of myself and I broke up with her.

I told you these 2 stories just to make you understand that I have had some experiences. I had had 3 other girlfriends when I was younger.

I haven’t had sex in almost a year. My social circle is not so bad. I live in a populous area. I have been able to meet several italian girls in this year, BUT I CAN'T CONNECT WITH ANY OF THEM. I'm experiencing an involution. I find difficult to connect with my female compatriots. It seems that they do you a favor if they talk to you. Sometimes I go into the friendzone, but lots of times I appear insignificant to them. Basically I can't simply have a date.

Any tips? Books to read? Already read "The mystery method". Thank you.