Everyone already knows this , but , I can't stress this enough , having friends that got game is major help , especially If you are getting started . Unfortunately I didn't have that advantage . It was just me and my best friend at first , both with no experience in cold approaching when we started out . If you do have friends with game , either go out with them , or try to "mimic" some of the things they do , not the things they say , but things like body language etc. Even when you're out without them .