Been consistently cold approaching at bars , clubs and parties for the last 6 months . And although I've been having some success , out of the last 20 girls I approached I only managed to pull 1 and she wasn't even as good looking as the girls I usually go for . The thing is that over those last 20 approaches I didn't even have fun , approaching the girls felt like a chore . Do you guys think that maybe I should take a little break from all this ? I do want to improve my game but I'm not even feeling the whole "seduction" thing any more . What do you think ?