How do I open with this girl ?

Radical_Neutral_76 · 2024-04-16T16:29:25+00:00

Fuck did you pretend not to know her for?

Just sit next to her next time, or one seat away, acknowledge her presence and say: hi! Was nice to meet you last time. How have you been

hunterpua · 2024-04-16T16:36:53+00:00

Just sit next to her, open her casually, and flirt.

The reason you may be nervous about doing that in a classroom setting is because you're probably not that good at flirting but you're pretty good at hitting on women.

Hitting on women is something you can get away with in bars and clubs because its more blatant and that kind of thing is more acceptable in those settings.

But Flirting is acceptable everywhere because its a lot more subtle.

I'm not proud of this story but it does a pretty good job of illustrating what flirting actually is and how it can be done just about anywhere...

I was once extremely attracted to my cousin's girlfriend.

And at that time I already got to the point of being able to openly sleep with multiple women, so my flirting skills were already pretty good.

We were in the same city for about a week for a family reunion and I seduced his girlfriend right in front of him and he had no idea what was happening.

Because I wasn't hitting on her, I was flirting with her.

Most of what I did was look at her like I wanted to fuck her, which wasn't difficult, because almost every time we saw each other, that's exactly how I felt.

But I didn't just do that. I also cut it out from time to time to ignore her, even when we were part of the same conversation.

Remember, it's just a look. And it wasn't blatant, I wasn't raising my eyebrows, winking at her, or giving her a perverted grin.

It was subtle, so from her perspective, she could feel like something was up but she could also tell herself that she was just misinterpreting.

And me ignoring her sometimes made her think she was misinterpreting even more.

I also said things like, "You seem like trouble", "You're actually kinda alright, I didn't think I'd like you at first", "I'm gonna pretend you didn't just do that because I was just starting to like you", "Stop looking at me like that", etc.

Basically things where there's a sexual subtext to it and given everything else that was going on between us, she interpreted it that way.

Most of that stuff I said in front of my cousin but he thought nothing of it because I played it off like I was just messing with her because she's so annoying. In fact, he often "ganged up on her" with me.

I also did things like walk straight towards her, still looking at her like I wanted to fuck her, also looking like I was gonna grab her and kiss her, only to be like, "Excuse me" and go straight past her to do something else.

All this raised the sexual tension between us so high that by the 3rd day of our family reunion, she pretty much looked for every reason to get close to me.

There was a time when I showed up to see my relatives singing karaoke and as soon as she noticed me, she said, "Hey, we hadn't done a duet yet. Let's do one."

She also looked for excuses to take photos with me and she would grab me and get really close when she did.

She'd always interject into other conversations that I was in, even when no one addressed her, even when its with people she never talked to before.

Long story short, she ended up trying to sleep with me in the hotel room that she and my cousin got for that trip but I didn't go for it because my cousin wasn't in the room but he was in the hotel.

When we went back to our respective cities she also messaged me, telling me to hit her up whenever I was in town.

Anyway, if you can behave like that, where a girl's boyfriend won't even notice you're seducing her when you're doing it right in front of his face, then you can seduce women in any setting.

Oh, and since you're in the same class, there's no rush, you have time. You'll always know where to find her as long as both of you are still in that class.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-04-16T16:36:20+00:00

Just go into class, if you see her make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back just walk over and ask if can sit. Just ask her about something, it can be something you talked about, how the rest of her night went, how she did on the test, it really doesn’t matter. Once you chat for a bit and get her laughing just say something like “hey I never got your number at the party, we should go grab coffee/study for the next test/help each other with the homework” you can then either go back and sit with your friends or sit with her the rest of class. Depends on the vibe. If you decide to sit with her for the class get her number after the class.

Think of getting her number as a “I had fun with you let’s do this again”

Also pro tip: just text to setup when you’re going to meet up. You can talk in person.

puluthi69 · 2024-04-17T19:14:58+00:00

Bro wants to move on without even trying lmao....that's not moving on mate....that's chickening out

Miguell7 · 2024-04-16T16:55:08+00:00

”Heyy, what’s up?”

OinkOink97 · 2024-04-16T23:13:42+00:00

Wellllll at least you build anticipation on her end, it’s your game my friend. Talk to her like a regular person. (Get her to talk the most) hold eye contact, speak slowly and coherently.

No_Promotion6231 · 2024-04-16T16:28:52+00:00

The fool proof is to be as casual as possible. Just say hey with a little smile and sit next to her. Then just pop out with a question or comment about the class a couple minutes in. Just say something casual that comes to mind without thinking too much about it. Worst thing you can do is over think

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-16T18:31:26+00:00

If you let it go and move on to the next girl just to be a nervous wreck with her then what?

LanguageDue2629 · 2024-04-16T22:55:13+00:00

Dude, just sit next her, smile, say hey is anyone sitting here? What was your name again? And boom conversation started. Stop overthinking it and just do

Title	How do I open with this girl ?
Author	Nawfside_B_Rose
Upvotes	73
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Date	April 16, 2024 4:08 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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