I think most of us agree that as a man, keeping some mystery is essential for dating success. In my experience, this has worked in all of my relationships, which have mostly been with girls from a Catholic background or sheltered women from conservative families.

Today, I went out with a cute 18-year-old Latina who’s new in my neighborhood. She is very seductive, very playful, unlike most girls I’ve been with. Or maybe I just miss the freshness and the superficial edge of a teenager. Anyway, during our date she managed to create a sense of mystery around her persona. I knew exactly what she was doing and held frame to the best of my abilities, but inside I couldn’t do anything to stop the efficacy of her seduction. Before this, I believe I held the upper hand, as I easily obtained sex from her a month ago. Haven’t been seeing each other regularly during April due to work-related commitments.

Feels like a ‘hunter becomes the prey’ situation, which makes me laugh but also wonder what I could do better in order to get her to open her legs to me again. Have any of you experience something similar? Any advice?