Am I the only one who finds it harder to approach women online?

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-04-28T22:10:25+00:00

All social skills are learned/acquired. If you find it hard then it’s good to learn i.e: read other posts in this sub. No you’re not alone.

What specific did you find hard to do? How to open a conversation? How to engage or maintain an interesting topic? Afraid of rejection/ignored?

But usually people find it harder to approach in real life than doing it online; since you gotta see eyes to eyes, maintain eye contacts, read body language, keep calm, etc.

Leiosss · 2024-04-29T03:39:02+00:00

I have managed to approach some women online and everything goes fine but with Tinder Instagram and all those sorts of online apps i find it i dont know, cold, weird, i prefer the face to face

jamnoNewEpoch · 2024-04-29T12:41:43+00:00

You are all right and fine. We are designed to talk face to face. Not typing / taping on some dirty screen. Electronic text creates useless barrier, abstraction and is more prone to misinterpretation. Texting with women I might desire is not dialogue in my opinion and I hate it.

MajesticFerret36 · 2024-04-29T04:06:32+00:00

It's objectively easier to master text game than it is to master any form of in-person game, so it's absolutely a skill issue and one that should be resolved far easier than any others.

Also, great in person game is wasted if your text game is shit, so it is probably the thing you should master first unless you like getting ghosted by women who were clearly attracted to you when you were talking to them in person.

Why is text game the easiest to master? Because you can literally use scripts and flow diagrams and get good results while you exchange information much quicker when talking to a woman in person, which is why fully canning interactions never works out.

Ask around and there's probably guys who will email you some free text game flow charts if you ask nicely

Silverthrone921 · 2024-04-30T01:12:47+00:00

No this is actually true. photos on dating apps create unrealistic expectations

Title	Am I the only one who finds it harder to approach women online?
Author	M4RKJORDAN
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Date	April 28, 2024 9:53 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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