TLDR : I know where I’m lacking in attracting women, especially the ones I really want, how do I get over the fomo when I’m focusing on my self? I feel like I’m wasting my younger years(22m)

Been 7 months since I’ve been out of my LTR( together for a year) and for the past couple months picking up girls has not been the best at all. I did go on a date with one girl in around November even got to hook up as well but shortly after things didn’t work out.

After a while I would be using dating apps a lot, now I don’t think I’m an ugly guy I know I’m not a super model or anything but I say I’m alright In the face. But damn dating apps really do a number on your ego and humble you granted a lot of my pictures were shit so the fact I was even getting a couple adds is something I guess, even though they never lead to anything. After a little bit of small talk, I’ll ask if their trying to meet up and that’s when they give me the usual that their busy, won’t know when their free, studying etc. so after a while of horrible luck I just gave up on dating apps.

The thing is, is that I would actually approach women in person, unfortunately I live in a very small rural town and the closest city to me is like an hour and a half a away from bus( I don’t have my full license yet getting that sorted out next month) and I don’t have any reason to be going there so opportunities to cold approach are straight up next to none. I’ve graduated college in around November so going to college to cold approach isn’t a thing I could do anymore.

And nowadays I feel like since I’m in my early 20s I need to have certain things in my to do well with women like my own car, more money, my own place etc I know what and where I am lacking in my life so I gotta focus on that not just for women but also so I can live a fun fulfilling life. Sometimes I feel like I wasted my younger years (18-20) and I really regret it a lot and I ain’t getting any younger so I want to make the most of it.

But it does suck feeling like I’ll have to focus on myself for a couple months just so I can have a chance to attract more women, how do you get over the fomo, I just feel like everyone is getting lucky except me.