Went to a party at a friend's house. I sensed some attraction from a cute girl I had never seen before so I started flirting with her. Immediately I sensed she's the hard to get feisty type, I could see she wanted total control of every situation. Unfortunately I drank a lot that night so I can only distinctly remember two episodes.
Scene 1: The girl, me, and one other guy, a super tall handsome dude, were alone. She was being flirty with him, putting her hands on his chest because he had a keffiyeh around his neck and she was saying how noble it is to represent Palestine, etc etc. I wasn't sure if she was just testing me or if she really liked this guy but one thing I was sure of was that he knew absolutely nothing about Palestine so I started talking about it, perhaps a bit controversially, to get a rise out of her. As expected, he had nothing to say while she had plenty to say and the conversation between us basically excluded him. After a bit of time he got bored and left, leaving me with her.
Scene 2: She and I were outside together alone while she smoked a cigarette. At this point we were feeling each other up, I had her feet in my lap and was massaging them. She kept telling me to touch her further inside her legs, to the point where I was basically fingering her over her panties. All this time she was kissing my neck and giving me licks on the lips to try to tease me, but always pulling back if I tried to go for a full makeout. We probably only really made out for a few seconds. She kept saying things like "I know I'm beautiful, tell me I'm beautiful" to which I would respond with sarcastic remarks like "I'll tell you one thing you're not, modest", or I would exaggerate and say in a very sarcastic voice while rolling my eyes "you're the most beautiful charming girl I ever met, when I first saw you I couldn't take my eyes off of you." It seemed to be working as she was getting a kick out of it. However, whenever I tried to grab her and pull her close she pulled back and said things like "you are too rough, you are probably into BDSM" to which I said maybe you'll find out. I suggested we go to one of the bedrooms but she wasn't game. Around this point I took her number as I could see it likely wasn't going to happen that night.
After this we went back inside and separated, I went to try to flirt with another girl I had met earlier. Shortly after that I realized I drank too much and my energy was drained and so I went into one of the bedrooms and passed out. In the morning when I emerged I saw she was in the living room asleep on a couch. I was completely exhausted so I just left. My friend who has known this girl for some time told me later that day that she described me as "brutal."
I thought about texting her and referencing something that night, like the Palestine argument or the foot massage, or even the fact that she called me brutal. The thing is I can see she is not attracted by chasers, so I have a feeling that texting at all is not going to work. If I do nothing I will definitely run into her again but who knows when. Thoughts?
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