Hi Gents,

First post here, will keep it short.

Recently out of 3 year relationship and for sure feeling rusty in the dating / seduction scene. Got a girls number there through a mutual friend (never met the girl before). I have been texting her for two days now, going pretty well I think. Subtle flirtation and engaging conversation. She seems interested to me.

Wondering at what point I should ask her out for a coffee or whatever, thinking pretty soon in the next day or so? More than a week of back and forth messages seems a little drawn out to me, but what do I know, I’m rusty in the scene.

Also any solid advice for the first date (providing she agrees to going out with me) It’s not really my style to try really hard to get sex on a first date, unless it was on a plate. Pretty happy for it to happen naturally a few dates in. But a cheeky kiss wouldnt go a miss. Any good advice for going in for the kiss? Or any signs it wouldn’t be a good idea? Depends on the girl I know but like I said, don’t really know her at all, seems pretty outgoing.

Cheers boys