The large majority of us discovered the red pill community through similar circumstances.

It wasn't when you were naked in bed with a beautiful woman. It wasn't when you were out with friends living your life to its' fullest. It wasn't when you were exploring the world, spending time enjoying your favourite hobby, or working on a passion project.

Men discover this community when they get dumped. Men discover this website when they have so little going on in their lives that they spend multiple hours doomscrolling Reddit and social media every day. Men discover this website when the YouTube algorithm realizes they're so pathetic that they'll watch numerous redpill videos in hopes to get laid for the first time in months.

Think of a man you look up to. Do you think he needs to study cold approach, practise mewing, and learn the ins and outs of push/pull to get a woman? Or has that man has developed a life so great that countless woman will do everything they can to become a part of it?

I found the redpill about a decade ago. Everything I learned here helped me get laid, it helped me start my road of self improvement, it helped me get past my state of hopelessness that a breakup and years of aimlessness had led me to; but the real change and development in my life started when I moved past the redpill, and focused on building my life into something so desirable that I didn't need to rely on PUA tactics to find a woman.

This community is a great start if you're in a bad place and you need some help to get laid, or you need a push to get yourself on a path of self development, but once you get some traction going in your life you'll realize that this community will do nothing but hold you back from living a life of fulfillment and greatness.