I appear as too calculative and calm so no woman thinks she can control me which is kind of a turn off for them as I would look like a guy who is just focusing on what he wants and don't care much about anything

I know hookups and being upfront is a thing but you have to atleast appear sincere right how can I appear that

They try to press my buttons to irritate me but I just pretend to be incident and go my way of that is the case