I'm not a professional photographer, it's only a weird hobby (more like a diary). Initially I kept it all to myself, but then decided to post online in anonymized ways to practice my photoshop skills and force myself to remember good dates I had. It really helps my mental health and self esteem. I do show them the photo first and ask if I can post online (I don't say the reason and nobody has actually asked), almost half allow it. The ones who don't allow, I don't post but still enjoy making the edits, even if I suck at it.

Nobody would consider me a popular guy, but yet somehow I get lucky. If I had to guess, I'd say it's 30% sweat and 70% just not being an asshole to women. But if anyone has any specific question, I can try to help (here on this sub, I rarely read chats and private messages). Keep in mind I'm almost 40, as are most women I date, so I my experience may not translate well to a younger crowd.