I've been married a long time. Things aren't what they used to be.

I want to leave. We've had sex maybe 4 times in the last 4 years.

I'm depressed to a point of no return. Everytime we talk I end up feeling like the guilty one. Like it's my fault and like she's going to have to get a second job or whatever.

No kids. But fuck. I'm ready to go... how do I do this?