Let me preface this by saying I have TRP to thank for this 'problem'. If this was even 3 months ago and this was the only girl I was seeing I would be over the moon and probably thinking I was in love and lucky. The girl is question is my 3rd/4 plates that I'm spinning. We met through Hinge. She's 5 years younger than me, is very smart/clever and 5'11" with an amazing body (Varsity rower in college), cute face. Basically everything is great except the sex is just ... average? She is obv enjoying it but her enthusiasm just isn't the same as the other 3 plates. I'm not sure if its a low N count or just her still being a bit shy, but she isn't very vocal (does talk a little when I say things but its usually one word answers and just moaning).

Like I said earlier if this was pre-TRP and she was the only thing going I'd be stoked, but with 3 other plates that I prefer sleeping with for sexual chemistry, I'm just wondering if its worth it to keep the plate spinning. What would you do to try to bring out the freak in her? Also, this might sound weird, but its like her vagina and my dick just don't ... blend well? Like angles are weird of something I don't know... Two of my plates are 5'3" (I'm 6'4") and I've noticed things are a lot tighter and just fit better than this girl who is 5'11" (no complaints on size from any of them, I'm just above average but the 5'3" girls think I'm a gorilla for some reason, w/e), maybe that has something to do with it.

Tonight she asked me out to go to a bar. We had a drink, grabbed some ice cream, and I took her home. She invited me in, I think she could tell I just wanted feeling it 100%. We made out on her couch for a bit and then I said I had an early morning and should head back home (it was 10:30pm). I could tell she was a bit surprised but she just looked at me as I stood up and grabbed my things and then walked me to the door and kissed me goodbye. I credit insane abundance mentality that I was able to just leave and not feel like I needed to get my dick wet first, I wonder if that might make her hamster get a little more aggressive just for that reason. Sorry for rambling

TL;DR How long do you keep spinning a plate when the sex is the least thrilling out of the 4 plates you have. Do you do anything to try to spice it up and get it on that level?