Figured a lot of you guys would find this useful. In this article i break down the 5 steps to setting up a date that maximize your chances of getting a yes. Here is a summary

1) Build investment - this means get a girl to actually send you messages that are longer then a sentence, get her to invest time & energy into the convo, because everyone wants to see a return on their effort

2) Soft close - This means get her on board with the general idea of meeting up with you. An example might be "we should get together sometime soon".

3) Figure out her schedule - dont just randomly assume she will be free at a random date. Instead you want to figure out her schedule. I will say something like "whats your schedule like"

4) Hard close - now that you know what days shes free, you can make plans "how does tuesday at 9pm sound?". It is important to make definitive plans, otherwise some girls will think you're not serious

5) Confirm - This is also crucial. Day of the date, message the girl and confirm that she's still coming. i like to say "hey still good for tonight". If you dont confirm, a girl will probably think you're flaking and make other plans

This is the gist of it, the article contains examples of each step so you can see exactly how its done. If you have any questions/thoughts comment below

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