Hey guys. I'm a 41-year-old male with a spinal cord injury. For about a year and a half, I've been in a wheelchair. I feel inferior to everyone else, and I've lost all my self-esteem. Back in the day, I had some game and was doing pretty well. That said, I shouldn't bring my childish need for attention and affection into the discussion. Although I wear a Foley probe and I am as I am, I really miss being with a girl. The talks, the holding hands, the kisses, and of course the sex. But I guess I have to leave the last part for later.. Because my living conditions are not so good yet, I can't go out very much. I really miss flirting with girls, the locked eyes, The kisses and everything that goes with them. Can you please give me some advice on where to start and how to proceed? I need to dream, at least.