quick question about group dynamics

tepper2 · 2015-08-28T17:47:27+00:00

Talk to whoever you want, who gives a shit?

However, If you want to fuck her, I'd advise talking to her instead of trying to bang one of the dudes.

poochman · 2015-08-28T18:05:16+00:00

You probably want to iso your target. If she's not willing to do that she's not into you.

abdada · 2015-08-28T17:48:05+00:00

Interact with everyone equally and then if you notice her group attention switching to boredom, go up to here and say "lets secrerly bounce" and take her somewhere else.

secretlyhigh · 2015-08-29T06:30:11+00:00

Don't let it get to your head and do not assume she is above using you to garner attention from the two guys. If the group dynamic plays out such that she believes you are closest to her smv, she gains confidence from your approval. If you know those two guys are higher smv she knows this too. She can test the water with you, the highest smv guy she feels 'comfortable' with. If one of the alphas shows as much interest as you, after she 'markets' herself in convo with you, she successfully used you as a stepping stone. If alpha dont take the bait she could be very well happy with you taking her home. This is how single women think. She is using you to leave a good impression. Whether you are her end goal or not she still knows the other two are higher smv and she is marketing herself.

My cousin and I aren't close, but whenever a guy I know comes around (no matter how beta) she's all of a sudden super playful with me and laughing hysterically at stupid shit as long as the other guy is watching. One guy I knew she had 0 desire to fuck, still the same routine, all just for his validation cause she wants him to see her as idk, actually fun? This is a guy she would never even date but she wanted him to desire her. I guarantee if an alpha was there she would look retarded she would go into overdrivewith this shit.

This is literally every girl happens every fucking day. Once you look for it you see it in every dynamic like yours.

Edit for clarification: This info is not meant to change your course of action but to provide insight. Dont let her games get into your head you need to look out for #1. Know what is going on and use to your advantage w/e possible.

Title	quick question about group dynamics
Author	stark1221
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	August 28, 2015 5:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3ir0xv/quick_question_about_group_dynamics/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/quick-question-about-group-dynamics.153111 https://theredarchive.com/post/153111

Comments