Approaching girls in group class

timjohnbrad11 · 2024-09-28T02:58:38+00:00

After only - and small talk is enough, just keep it casual as you’ll see them again. Please don’t tell them they’re cute!

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-28T07:44:33+00:00

Usually you want to go with something relatable which connects you, "Hey, how you enjoyed today's training?"

epimpstyle · 2024-09-28T12:17:17+00:00

Technically every excuse you create for not approaching a woman is approach anxiety. Your brain is clever at creating excuses, now it is not knowing what to say, later it will not be the right time to approach, then you are not dressed well, then there are people around you.... and so on.....

You should never tell them they're cute, imagine you see a brunette girl, you're not going to say to her "I saw you're a brunette, I want to say hi". Or if she wears a red t-shirt, "I saw you're red t-shirt, I want to say hi"- see how it sounds? Now replace the brunette girl or red t-shirt with a "cute" girl: "I saw you're cute, I want to say hi".... looking from her point of view is exactly the same silly thing, she knows she is cute, there is no need to place her on a pedestal right in the beginning. When you will say they are cute, you refer to what they said, for example: "I like what you said," "I like your idea," "I like the way you think," "I like that you're open-minded.".... There is no need to refer to her beauty.

How do you start talking?

The easiest way is with headphones, listen to music by any popular singer, go up to the girl you like and casually saying to her: "Hey, quick question, who sings this? I know him, but I have a lapse, it is so annoying" [she tells you the name "okay thanks, now I feel better hahah" and leave]. Tomorrow it's easier, "Hi, how's it going?" .... When you see each other next time it's a lot easier because you've already broken the ice.

Title	Approaching girls in group class
Author	x_gamer_x7
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	September 28, 2024 1:54 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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