I will try to keep it as short as possible but I go to college in the United States and right now I am in my final semester of college. The college I go to is a party school and I am in my final semester of college as a virgin. Various issues I faced growing up such as having overbearing helicopter parents and going to high school in a shitty area full of ugly girls (which made me not even want to consider sex) led to me being where I am. No doubt it hurt my psyche and inner game but I spent 2 years fixing that so that is not an issue.
I went the community college and then university route, lived at home for the first 2 years of college which didn't help out too much. It was then that I got into the PUA/game stuff and would start talking to random girls and doing the cold approach type of stuff. Had a couple of dates and was comfortable enough to get their numbers but due to living at home, I could never work out the logistics to actually have sex with them.
Came to the university I am at right now with no idea of what Greek Life was (it's pretty big here) and ended up not having much of a social life going for me. Was somewhat depressed my first year here but still managed to make friends with people even though the issue was that I had too much work to manage my time well. Here are some descriptions of my university and myself.
College:
- SEC school with a large undergrad population
- Located in a college town setting where everything revolves around the university
- Large greek life scene
- Mostly wealthier white kids
- Almost all of the girls are white and a good number of them in a sorority
- Very active nightlife scene with good bars (just turned 21 a few months ago)
- Girls in the college itself are good looking but the town is in a bad shape and most of the women outside of the college area are ugly and poor
Me:
- 6'1
- Skinnyfat as of right now (like at 20% bodyfat the last time I measured) but some some odd reason I have still had people tell me I am good looking which I don't get but I'll take it!
- Engineering major
- Arab/Middle Eastern descent (I am darker skinned, have the same skin tone as Wilmer Valderrama and get told I look like him a lot, feel like this could potentially be a major problem for me giving my location but maybe I am just being paranoid here)
Positive things about me: I've been reading game related material for years now, talked to guys online that have claimed to sleep with a lot of women, read a lot of red pill material about a few months ago when I found the sub, am great at dealing with rejections meaning I can keep on trucking after it, can approach most girls without being shy about it, and I despite the circumstances I feel like I have a high opinion of myself (they do say irrational confidence can be a good thing).
What can I do other than work on getting a better body to put myself in the best circumstance so I lose my virginity before graduation?
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