I'm 20 years old, and I’ve always considered myself pretty good with women. I’ve been in two long-term relationships with attractive girls and have had almost 30 other sexual encounters. I’m 5’11”, about 180 lbs, and in better shape than average. I’d say I’m an attractive guy. Recently, I’ve noticed some things that have confused me. Most of my hookups have come from social media or dating apps, and I find it easy to close the deal when hanging out one-on-one. Usually, I’ll invite a girl over, we chat for a bit, and it leads to sex. Other times, I’ll take them out for a short date, and that often ends the same way. Sometimes, they’ll invite me over to hang out, and it also tends to end in sex after chatting and watching a movie. However, I’ve noticed that when I’m at bars or in more open social settings, I’m a bit more reserved. I’ll talk to girls, but I don’t feel as assertive as I do in one-on-one situations. I’ve noticed this because some of my friends are more confident in those settings, and they’ll make out with girls or even take them home from the bar. For context, I’m in sales and didn’t go to college, but most of the girls I’ve been with are in college, and some are highly intelligent. I still find myself in college-related social circles often. I’m a social guy, so I think I might be overthinking things when I’m in public, especially when I think I have a good chance with a girl.