"want to chill?"

tuxedoburrito · 2015-09-01T16:23:41+00:00

Hanging out with men is a good thing.

Ask them to do something constructive, that's what I do.

"Wanna hangout?" "Well I'm about to go the gym. You can come with me."

That's usually what I go to, bc most of my free time is spent at the gym. Other than that, I mean friends are important. Men can be great wingmen, and last night I drove half an hour to watch a movie with a buddy. American Ultra. I hadn't seen him in awhile and I knew he wanted to see it.

Men in your life are important. Just make sure they're healthy relationships. I think realistically you have about five people who you can invest in. The guys you're hanging with and however many plates you have, but usually it's about five that you can really make time for.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-09-01T16:36:04+00:00

Before the internet and when things closed down for the day, and the world wasn't 24/7, I used to chill with friends. Now I cannot think of anything more pointless. I'm working on my next startup, and the way I see it, every hour I spend away from that, is an hour further from my goal.

RedPillJax · 2015-09-01T20:40:28+00:00

Male bonding is cool, and despite it feeling like work sometimes - you should feel very grateful that other men want you around as much as they do.

Do you need to accept every invitation? Hell no - but attend some. Make it to the big events, and for small things try to make it something mutually enjoyable if you don't dig sitting around a house watching someone play Xbox.

AberdeenRSK · 2015-09-01T16:49:38+00:00

Don't let anyone get in the way of your goals.

Title	"want to chill?"
Author	dabrah1
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	September 1, 2015 4:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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