i cant put my finger on it but maybe its one-itis. i cant find a THE girl to be with so i get VERY bored with random girls who would be pretty good for some guys i'm sure.

its probably not one-itis maybe i'm just way to cynical about girls in general.

for example: this girl has been bugging me about going to the movies but there is not one good movie and i feel bad saying no so i get HUGELY irritated and say yes. WTF! when i meet her i cant stand the movie and i cant stand her either cuz that is my general mindset and feel forced to go on a date and hate it!!! any solutions?