About an hour before I posted this OP, at

"Vulva Diversity" is now a cause... but intactivism for men is still a fringe belief... :

an OP was put up about women complaining about how they're made to feel inadequate because of how their vaginas look. I think my response is worth an OP, so I'm putting here instead of in that chat. What gets me about this, is how free women are to say ANYTHING, while men have to walk on eggshells about what they say.

If a guy started complaining about how he is made to feel inadequate because he has a small penis, not only would he get no support, but he would also be laughed out of the building for admitting he has a small penis. Can men freely admit they have physical flaws without being mocked? Must we always publicly talk as if we have no flaws?

And this holds in other areas too. Women can openly sexually drool over hot men, while men who did that run the risk of being called a rapist or sexual harasser or an objectifier of women. When I was a kid, a girl visiting my house hit on me, asked me out. I said no. To my astonishment, she complained to my mother about me turning her down, and my mother took her side, saying I should have gone out with her. LMAO If a girl turned me down, and I complained to her old man about it, at the least he would yell at me and throw me out of his house. Every male knows this, knows he has to hide his sexual intentions while women can say anything about their intentions.

Sports announcer Marv Albert got in trouble for saying a female spectator was hot. Think that would happen to a woman? LMAO

On a TV talk show, decades ago, I saw a teenage girl point to a teenage boy and say, on national TV in front of a live audience that the boy only had one testicle. The boy of course looked shocked - that poor boy. The audience roared with laughter. I literally had trouble believing what I was seeing. If a boy told a TV audience that a girl only had one boob, it would have been edited out of the show to spare her humiliation. And the boy would have been lucky to get off the stage without getting beat up.

Michael Douglas got mocked for saying he thinks giving his wife oral sex gave him throat cancer. Women who admit such things start movements about drawing attention to diseases.

People who make excuses for this double standard like to say "yeah, well, men are the ones who rape, so it's justified." But most here know that women rape men often enough to make that excuse crap. Time for us to advocate for the freedom of speech of men.