I couldn't really think of another way to describe the title. But essentially, I get shit-tested every now and again as people do: But I notice people always seem to look as for me to explain myself, and try to make me rationalize and throw rhetoric's at me, or they simply ask "Why"

I was hoping that you guys might be able to help me find ways to disengage people's attitude towards me- aside from "I don't have to explain myself to you."

Thanks guys.