I have a woman I work with that I am extremely attracted to why I don’t know in my head I think she hits a kink I have look wise. It’s very sad I never felt like immediate eletric like attraction from a woman before I know the difference between sexual attraction and this . The kind of attraction I would classify as magnetic because I have to force myself not to look at her.

So one day she was at a place getting lunch and I was there also and I approached her and was like hey you was at that restaurant right she replied yea I was but she didnt inquire about anything else. I said that to her to gauge her interest from my past experience women like you they start asking questions once you give some type of lee way to talk. She looks at me sometimes but never says anything at all and I never do either. Her friend who is like always with her gives me a look to like she knows something but is like hiding it or maybe she gives me that look like a creep I dont know. In the real world I would of just came off way more forward to just get the answer cause I would rather know. Am I overthinking?