That's something we really have to stop if we want to support ourselves more.

Some people here often come up in the comments not even with their own experiences BUT with the worst possible experiences anyone has ever had.

it's perfectly logical that there is always someone who has had a far worse experience, but that doesn't help anyone and you have absolutely no influence on that.

We live in the here and now ... and we are us.

What's more, it's not something a woman would do. (In my experience)

Mrs. A. says “Hey, I've experienced this and that today, I'm feeling really bad”

Mrs. B. answer: “oh my god you poor thing I feel it completely how can I help you” or “I'll make you a cup of tea first”

Or something else.

For some strange reason, men always have to compete to see who is the worst off and in my opinion that doesn't matter. it's just the fact that IF you are able to help someone you should do so. At some point, you yourself will be in a position to help others who need it in return.

Above all, this often just undermines the situation of someone who is honestly going through a difficult time and this person should then feel bad because they are not even worse off?

I have to say that I'm a bit tired of talking about my problems online because I keep realizing ... even here I realize that basically nobody cares.

I'm now completely on my own, as I no longer have a family ... apart from my children, who I'm lucky enough to see every few weeks or months and for whom I just have to exist.

I no longer see any purpose and my main problem is simply my financial situation ... which I can't change on my own because of my disability ...

i don't even have anything that i could invest in the hope that something might go up and then i would have some peace of mind ... but i just have to live a miserable life without being allowed to be happy at all.

I would even like to get a pet but even that would be too expensive for me ...

I actually need a car, but apart from the purchase costs, I couldn't even afford the fixed costs at the moment.

No matter how I turn it around, I just can't change it because I'm laughed at or ignored everywhere because of something like this.

i just want to be a good father .. able to build up a new life with someone maybe but i know its nearly impossible in my situation.

Nevertheless, thank you for your time to read.