Nervousness

MrPound4Pound · 2024-12-16T01:54:42+00:00

that's normal when you're in unfamiliar territory. First time you rode a bike, you're legs were probably shaking. It went away as you kept riding. Same with women. When I started, I actually froze up in my earliest approaches. I couldn't even get a word out. I've done more than a 100+ approaches now. It doesn't happen anymore.

Women don't scare me or make me nervous anymore. Only way to get over it is by pushing yourself through the discomfort and continuing to be interact with women your attractive too. And not just here and there and only a few times. Multiple times and consistently.

You just have to get your body acquainted to these feelings until it becomes familiar and I can tell you based off my experience they do go away. The first several approaches might be tough at first but once you get going, it gets easier with time cause you will be less nervous.

epimpstyle · 2024-12-16T12:18:48+00:00

"Monkey see, monkey do".... you need to go out with a friend of yours and see how they are doing. Once you see with your own eyes that it is not as bad as you think, you can do the same.

If you have no friends to go out with it will be difficult, not impossible but harder. Approaching girls is a battle with your high ego. You can temporarily change this if you make yourself feel good before you leave the house. Listen to the music you like, listen to some jokes, do some jumping jacks, take a cold shower, do whatever it takes to have a good moment. In this way, without you even knowing it, you will have sparkling eyes, you will smile, you will be in a talkative mode, you will radiate happiness and well-being... everyone wants to be around such people. You have to act fast, because in max. 30 minutes if you don't talk to anyone, the effect disappears.

If you are with a friend, you will enter this "talkative mode" more quickly, because you will be talking to your friend as you walk down the street. Imagine you are sitting in front of your PC all day, not talking to anyone, but later you see a girl on the street, do you think you can automatically change your passive mood to be funny, playful, interesting? It won't happen!

Title	Nervousness
Author	Not_talk_to_hand
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	December 16, 2024 1:46 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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