I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now, and our bond is special. We’re very close—she shares everything with me, from her life’s ups and downs to random little things. We had sex chat on call,we have done intimate touching in shopping mart 2-3times Despite our connection, she hasn’t made me her boyfriend, and I can’t figure out why.

she’s hesitant to meet in public because she feels people judge her (earlier she use to meet me in library garden..we study in library..now she says people stare at her in weird way when she is talking to me in library). She says she wants me to focus on my career and get stable, but it feels like she’s holding back emotionally. On the other hand, there’s this guy named Ayan, whom she talks to online for 2yrs. She says he understands her mood well and can even predict her behavior but she also says he is weird and extremely religious but they’ve never met in real life—it’s all virtual. Sometimes, when she talks about him, she seems confused, and I’m not sure if she has feelings for him or if it’s just a close friendship. We have been connected for 3 months snd we got very close bcz of our mindset, humour,vibe match I’ve tried everything to show her how much I care—being supportive, playful, romantic, and even vulnerable. She have earlier told me everything is fine but don't get too attached with me i will get hurt (she got hurt 2yrs ago by a guy who didn't marry her and married someone else and also use to cheat on her) I don’t know where I stand in her life. She once said "m more than a friend,” but I want more—I want her to see me as her boyfriend. She is too confused about her own feelings.She have told me she use to be very sad and depressed but after i came in her life she smiles laugh n all How can I ignite love in her for me and make her realize I’m the one for her? What can I do to show her I’m serious and to overcome whatever is holding her back?