Might be a stupid question..

fnordsnord · 2015-09-24T04:56:06+00:00

First, don't. If it goes bad, your livelihood is at risk. Can you get a new job in 2 weeks time? In this economy?

Okay - now the we have confirmed that you are going to do something stupid, let me ask you another question: when she turned you down because she was "busy," did she offer an alternate date and time?

A woman who is into you will MAKE time to see you. If she was actually busy, but wanted to see you, she would have suggested an alternate time. If she did not, you have mis-interpreted good manners at work as "IOI's." You have been politely blown off.

So - did she offer an alternate date/time?

stickfiguresk · 2015-09-24T03:54:38+00:00

might be a stupid question...

but I got the number of a girl that I work with.

Checks out.

OP, if you can tell me how you've shot yourself in the foot already, and how escalating with this chick further would be like shooting yourself in the other foot, I'll help you shoot that second foot.

JeffsRP · 2015-09-24T02:58:34+00:00

My question is how to proceed.

Read the sidebar.

I know the policy is generally not to shit where you eat

So don't shit where you eat. I can get 10 women a week but a new job takes at least a fortnight.

I'd like to build some rapport out of work. She's young so I'm guessing text game would be appropriate

Only txt for logistics. Your txt game is no doubt shitty, otherwise you wouldn't have asked if txt game was appropriate. Stick to the facts.

Title	Might be a stupid question..
Author	teachmehow2rp
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	September 24, 2015 2:48 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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